5v/12ma Relay

Hi,
I need a 240V/6A relay with coil 5v/12mA.I need both No and Nc terminals also(So I think solid state relays won’t work)
Actually, I found few relay modules with the spec which uses an optocoupler, but none of them is lasting longer. ( Used:

JBtek 4 Channel DC 5V Relay Module for Arduino Raspberry Pi DSP AVR PIC ARM)

can anyone suggest good quality relays for me?
I was trying to control my household devices through the home assistant. While maintaining the existing piano switches.
I am using node mcu to control relays

This is going to be very difficult to find. You will have to use a transistor so you can supply more current to the coil. Or buy a module that already has this on the circuit board, e.g.:

https://www.aliexpress.com/store/product/Relay-Shield-for-WeMos-D1-mini-button/1331105_32596395175.html

If you want high power, could you not drive a bigger 240v coiled relay of the 5v one