Today I have a 2-way physical switch (both downstairs or upstairs can control a single light) and would like to make this smart. I’ve come across a few posts where folks look to be trying to install smart relays to maintain the physical switching aspect (e.g. Correct connection of Sonoff Smart Switches for a two-way switch), however I’d like a smart bulb I can dim, etc.
For the us version, there’s inovelli with tons of features if you need to use with smart bulbs. They also plan to make one for EU version but that’s not out yet
Anyway, zbm5 should work fine with your setup with smart lights but they don’t support binding as of now and doesn’t look the buttons have additional actions (like multi press for dimming)
Another option is these tuya switches that you can flash with custom firmware via ota (enable binding, router mode, long press)