Dashboards not updating across devices

Hi There, I’m very new to Home Assistant but not at all new to Home Automation. I’m looking to move from a Z-Wave / Vera based environment with full integration with about 30 end point devices and my DSC alarm panel. I’m at the start of that major conversation and have already hit a road block. The user interface for this system are 3 wall mounted iPad series 9’s which are replacing 3 Samsung tablets running Imperihome which is an awesome application but has lost support.

What I have noticed is that all 3 of these new iPad’s are able to control everything just fine (using Lovelace) but when you make a change on one iPad that change is not shown of the other iPads. If I go to the other iPad and refresh them the changes are now there but they should refresh themselves.

Previously the 3 Samsung tablets would refresh within 2 seconds across all 3. Any help would be awesome.

How are you connecting to your lovelace dashboard? Through a web browser? Through an app?

I can connect via the docker container in Unraid, or any web browser on my network, they both act the same. I also have the 3 iPad’s which are running the iPad HA app. If I go to one of the 3 iPad’s and turn on a light that iPad shows that the light is now on but the other two iPad’s never show the device changing.

Maybe a little more info, I have two garage doors that can be opened and closed either by HA thanks to my VERA integration or by the typical door opener button near the garage door however when I open one using thos