So I now have two instances running. THe big one in the basement in a beefy server and a small one in the living room, CEC controlling the TV and being the Zigbee Gateway.
Is there a way of easily integrating and controlling the entitites from the Gateway into the big instance?
I know, there is a way of having a python CEC server that the beefy instance can connect to. But this would involve altering the OS away from vanilla and easy restoration. SO this would be my plan B.
Thanks for the tips, yesterday I went with the minimal remote-homeassistant config and it did not work. By adding an long live api key it now is connected and I see the child entitites.