Matter over Thread commissioning fails with SLZB-MR5U — "Discovery timed out" every time

Hi everyone, I’ve been stuck for several days trying to commission my first Matter over Thread devices (IKEA KAJPLATS bulbs) and I’m running out of ideas. I’d really appreciate any help.

Setup

  • HA OS 17.1 running in a UTM VM on Mac (aarch64 / qemuarm-64), bridged networking
    • Home Assistant Core 2026.2.3
    • Matter Server 8.2.2 (SDK 2025.7.0)
    • OTBR add-on connected to SMLIGHT SLZB-MR5U (tested both TCP/Ethernet AND USB — same result)
    • Android phone with HA Companion app for commissioning
    • Network: Orange ISP box, IPv6 enabled on HA, phone only has fe80:: link-local IPv6
    • Using CPL (powerline) adapters between devices

What works

  • OTBR is Leader on Thread network ha-thread-fb6e (channel 15) :white_check_mark:
    • Bulb joins Thread successfully (gets IPv6 address, registers on SRP, publishes Matter service _matter._tcp) :white_check_mark:
    • At 1m distance: RSSI -64 dBm, LQI 255, bulb even becomes a Thread router :white_check_mark:
    • Phone can see _matter._tcp and _meshcop._udp services via service browser :white_check_mark:
    • Zigbee works fine on the same SLZB-MR5U :white_check_mark:

What fails

Via HA Companion app (Android): Gets stuck on “Checking network connectivity to ha-thread-fb6e” for ~5 minutes, bulb blinks once, then error: “Unable to find device, make sure your phone is connected to WiFi”

Via Matter Server WebSocket (commission_with_code):

Discovery timed out
Secure Pairing Failed
CHIP Error 0x00000003: Incorrect state

Times out after exactly 30 seconds every time.

Via Matter Server Web UI: “Commission new Thread device” button is grayed out (no Bluetooth available on VM). “Commission existing device” with pairing code → same Discovery timeout.

OTBR logs during commissioning

The bulb joins Thread fine, but I see this pattern:

Frame Duplicated (13+ consecutive, same seqnum)
Dropping (reassembly queue)
IPv6 UDP msg, len:576, chksum:xxxx, error:ReassemblyTimeout

This happens on a 576-byte fragmented packet (likely the PASE exchange). Same behavior at 1m with perfect signal.

Matter Server logs

No commissioning activity at all when using the phone — the command never reaches the Matter Server. When using WebSocket directly: “Discovery timed out” after 30s → the Matter Server cannot find the bulb via mDNS.

What I’ve tried

  • TCP/Ethernet connection AND USB direct → same failure
    • Multiple bulbs, multiple resets
    • Phone on same subnet (192.168.1.x)
    • IPv6 enabled on HA
    • Verified Thread dataset, OTBR status, SRP registration — all OK

What I suspect but haven’t been able to verify

  1. mDNS bridge issue: OTBR may not be correctly relaying mDNS advertisements from Thread to the IP network (the VM bridge might block multicast)
    1. Android Thread credentials: Possibly corrupted/stale credentials on Android (haven’t tried the Google Play Services data clear workaround yet)
    1. VM networking limitation: The UTM VM bridged network might not properly forward IPv6 multicast needed for mDNS service discovery

Questions

  1. Has anyone successfully commissioned Matter over Thread devices with HA running in a UTM VM on Mac?
    1. Could the mDNS relay between OTBR and the IP network be broken in a VM setup? How can I verify this?
    1. Is there a way to commission a Thread device purely server-side without needing phone BLE or mDNS discovery?
      Thanks for any help! Happy to provide additional logs.

Your Powerline adapters might not handle IPv6 well, if they are of older make.

And to 3.3: yes you should be able to commission device directly on the server through the Matter servers web interface.
It requires a bluetooth adapter dedicated to this role.
You will not need phone, but mDNS might still be required and mDNS is required for normal operation too.

I had exactly the same experience. Make sure fc00::/7 (unique local addresses) is routable in your HA/MR5U/Matter devices network. For me, this was the solution.

I have a home assistant running with mr5u and kajplats ikea bulbs and it is running fine.
I did not get mode usb working but ethernet works.
I cannot say what the problem is but just to let you know that it can be done.