I couldnt see my nvme drive efter flashing haos from ubuntu to the nvme drive,that following the HA guide, it did show up in bios, secure boot disabled and UEFI, the fix was to remove it from the N100 TRIGKEY G4 mini PC and put it in a usb dongle thingy, hocked it up to my main pc and with belana etcher in W11 i burned the haos image to the nvme, then it showed up at once, skip Ubuntu if you cant see the drive when trying to boot to HAOS the first time.
For TRIGKEY its F7 to select boot drive and if its not there the flashing failed.
I thought I would paste it here since I didnt find any solution for this on internet.
Solved.