I am not sure if I fully understand your last remark. But in this post, I explain how I finally ‘solved’ it.
The central boiler now automatically takes both current and target temperature from the room with the biggest delta between current and target temperature (= the room with biggest heating need).
So I didn’t solve it with the Versatile Thermostat functionality (I use it for all the other stuff), but with some template sensors and one automation.