Wireless switch? to replace x10

so x10 wireless switches are a dead end, they don’t work well with LED light noise either.
So what is out there to replace it?, is there a good quality ESP/relay module that is made to safe standards?
I have 4 groups of lights in kitchen ceiling with no wires to switches in wall, all the x10 modules are installed in the attic. yes it can get hot up there.

I am thinking of a ESP touchscreen to control them.

Thanks

Like ISO, NOM, UL, …?

Also things like voltage, expected maximum load and the country you want to install the switches are vital to post so people can suggest proper hardware

120v USA

groups

  1. two LED bulbs ( less than 40w)
  2. five LED bulbs ( less than 100w)
  3. above cabinets 12v LED strip 10 ft +very dim (less than 1 amps)
  4. Under counter 12v LED strip 10 ft +dimmed (less than 2 amps)

Update 11/23/24
I got Zwave devices to do the job, when I first started looking at HA I thought I have to create my own devices (ESP with Relay) to do this stuff.

I don’t know why I didn’t see the zwave shelly relays and zooz dimmers, that was all I needed, installing them now.