I ended up using node red for mine. Mine are connected through the smarthings integration so I only get pushed and held. I also had to deal with the held function also sending a pushed function. I solved it but I’m sure in not the most efficient way , I am very new. Here is the node red flow.
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I did combine some functions in a subflow so not sure how they will show up for you but that is where the magic happens.
Craig