I ended up being able to connect via gui after a few updates/restarts. So not sure what that was (was messing around in the console and tried again and it connected). Now I just need for the below section to change so I can select it.
Network adapter
Configure which network adapters integrations will use. Currently this setting only affects multicast traffic. A restart is required for these settings to apply. Unselecting the default option allows both cards to be selected.
Going to close this out shortly.