Whatever 12V >8A spst (or spdt) relay is fine. Why 8A? I like to have 3x margin for relays that are not rated for inductive load. https://www.aliexpress.com/item/33037376542.html https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005003128290617.html
Obviously some brand like Omron offers more reliability, but costs 5 times more (or is fake).
Also whatever diode rated >20V/200ma, for example the same 1N4007 you use for flyback.