Crap think i did something wrong
I added the plug to the wifi
Then i could adopt it inside esp home dashboard (addon)
When i did, it prompted me to update, so i did…
And now its offline… and cant connect to it anymore
Nor do i see its own wifi anymore
Tried to reset it, but still no own wifi and offline
Now what? lol
Edit: fixed it; phew 
it was on test wifi ssid