Cant connect to ESP over Wifi

First rule buying a router/wifi ap: make sure it is supported by openwrt

https://openwrt.org/toh/start

The only routers i have are or have been supplied by my isp. My main wifi is handled by an old unifi ap. If i was in the market for one, openwrt would be a requirement

Auch! First thing i do when / if changing provider is ask if their ā€œrouterā€ can be programmed as bridge only. If not, then goodbye, brotherā€¦
I have my own router, (a number of them actually, connected in a Mesh) which is ā€œjust a bitā€ more powerful than that cheap sh*t from providers which is very good on paper, but generally a piece of cr**p in real world.

First rule buying a router/wifi ap: make sure it is supported by openwrt

True. I only have Asus routers which can be loaded with Merlin custom FW (asus based, but heavily customized and upgraded). Having stock FW is good enough for ā€œnormalā€ user only. I guess that this makes us ā€œabnormalā€ users thenā€¦ :rofl: (ok, letā€™s say ā€œadvancedā€).