This might be hard to hear for you too but the us and them distinction bothers me. In the (F)OSS world there’s just us — you are part of this community even though there are various levels of skills involved. Even the researcher that did us this huge favour I’d now consider part of this tremendous community. Contrast this with paid-for, commercial software where it’s perhaps more reasonable to make demands.
This is why I think your remarks come across as harsh.
One could ask, now assuming that you take responsibility as being part of this community, why you didn’t make these remarks on the original post on the 14th? That would’ve helped other people already then. If I think like this I should even blame myself because as a software engineer I understand the potential risks of an exposed system and could’ve said something earlier. It’s not so easy now, is it? That kind of reasoning or blaming really isn’t done in a constructive way when viewed like this.
I believe a constructive piece of advice would’ve been something like this: “Assume the worst since your whole system might’ve been exposed or compromised. It is a best practice to change all credentials (i.e. passwords, tokens, etc.).”