Hi Beatle,
Thank you for posting all this information here. While you’re looking for solutions to your step of the problem, you may have helped me with mine, sort of…
This page:
has this:
Suffix P indicates a meter with a pulse facility; a pulse module and lead is not supplied with this meter.
Which is quite significant for me, as my gas meter here in Australia which looks identical to yours is conspicuously labeled U8. It took my mind back to the email from the Aussie meter supplier EDMI who said that they hadn’t supplied meters with pulse capability because there wasn’t enough demand for them from the gas companies here. And I was confused at the time, because I said I could see the little magnet going around on the cog. But now I’m wondering if it’s just a piece of metal or plastic to keep the mass of the cog within specs. And if so, it’s no wonder I’m having such trouble detecting it with a reed switch - there’s no blooming magnet!!
In any case, I’ve since tried just the guts of the aqara door sensor, without success, and my next attempt is going to be a hall effect sensor + esp32. If it isn’t a magnet attached to that cog, I can only hope its ferrous metal so I have a chance of picking up a wiggle…