[HowTo] Setting up a Telegram Bot for all your Home Automation messages

Depends how you want to setup Telegram on the second phone, a separate/dedicated Telegram account (for use by another individual) or a shared Telegram account for both phones (only used by you).

If you use a separate Telegram account, for example, you can add a second Telegram configuration node in Node-RED.

As far as I known you also can add the second user ID in the existing Telegram bot configuration node.

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Also beware, as far I understand, using Telegram in HA (by configuration made in configuration.yaml) is separated from the Node-RED configuration, so don’t mix that up.

Documentation:

I didn’t tried this myself, I have an other setup (dedicated Node-RED config on a dedicated Node-RED server) so maybe someone else could chime in.

EDIT: Also you can check @gerard33 solution if it is suitable for you:

and/or

https://community.home-assistant.io/t/telegram-bot-group-chat-to-control-garden-lights-with-inline-keyboard