I am also building a new home (groundbreaking in a week) and my requirements are extremely similar to yours. WAF is critical, has to have “dumb redundancy,” Ubiquiti, wall tablets, central equipment closet, the works. Let me share a few of my notes that might help you.
Blinds/shades
I have been looking into this a lot, and I think I’m going to go a DIY route and get regular shades and then retrofit some of them to be power operated using motors like this. I’m going this route because (1) I don’t want all of my shades to be powered, and (2) I want to have them all match and I don’t want to be limited by lines of products that also have from-the-factory power options. Those motors like I linked to are controlled via RF, and can be integrated with Home Assistant using a Broadlink RM Pro. I’m running 2-conductor wire for 12-volt power to most window frames.
Whole-home audio/voice assistant integration
We’re an Alexa family, and I’m planning on having Alexa available everywhere. I’m going to install units in the ceiling (disguised as speakers) or used Alexa-enabled Fire Tablets permanently mounted in the walls in key locations, using this PoE/audio over ethernet in that HTD kit to return their audio to the central closet. Their audio will then be piped into the home audio system. HTD has some great looking new amps like this one (single room) or this one (multi-room) that have built-in auto-switching inputs designed for voice assistants, so a set of built-in speakers can be shared between a TV and an Echo device. Watch their video, it’s pretty cool. With Echo devices or ChromeCast Audios, this amp would essentially give you whole-home audio without having to wire any in-wall control pads. This is the route we’re going – I’ve built two other houses with built-in keypads in the walls, and these days we just don’t use them. We want it all to work with voice and the phones.
The only thing I haven’t figured out yet with this setup is how I’m going to integrate Alexa into my living room 5.1 setup, since those amps I linked are designed for stereo only. I’m looking at line-level mixers and having Alexa hijack two of the living room speakers.
Light switches
There’s a lot of switches on the market these days and I haven’t tested them all, but I’ve had good luck with the Leviton Z-wave switches. I like that they have a separate dimmer control…when I had “single paddle” ones like GE and Linear, where the dimming function was holding in the paddle, my guests were constantly confused and frustrated with the lights. The dimming rate is also customizable, and there are status LEDs to show the dimmer level.
HVAC
Yes, smart thermostats that have integrations with HA. I have ecobee in my current house; in the new house I think we’re going with some Honeywell WiFi-enabled thermostats, one for each floor.
Alarm system
Like you I am so far undecided on how I’m going to approach the security system. I would like to:
- Have hardwired (and invisible) door contact sensors, that ideally can be shared between a “real” security system and HA. Thus far I can’t figure out what hardwired system is the easiest to DIY and has a decent way of integrating with HA and exposing sensor states. I’m looking into the DSC/Honeywell stuff that @gsksim recommended but I don’t know much about this.
- Be able to expand the system with additional wireless sensors in the future if needed.
- Be able to control/disarm/deactivate an alarm with automation from HA, so that when we inevitably forget to arm it (or disarm it) I can automate some of that.
TVs
I can’t yet answer your question about which TV would be best from an automation standpoint, but for each TV location I am running 2x cat6, 1x RG6 coax, a 4-conductor wire (for 2x RCA analog audio), and conduit back to the closet. This is the combination I’ve determined will give me the most flexibility for future expansion.