So, just in case someone stumbles upon this, here is all of the things that I did to fix this.
- make sure your permissions in docker are sorted out.
- Restart home assistant (not just docker… not sure, but I believe i thought i was re-starting HA, but not)
- enabled IPV6 in docker and ubuntu - You need to confirm IPV6 is working. In my case it was, this did not solve anything
- Dropped supervisor docker and re-created it
- Review your UFW settings - this was my fix, but it didn’t fix the ingress. I turned mine off and it worked. Turned it on, broke again. Found the right settings for all of my integrations/add-ons.
- Restart home assistant.
The ingress errors are a symptom, not at all the root cause. This also fixed a bad gateway issue on file-configurator.