Welcome Melanie,
Welcome to the forums.
There are approx 130,000 members here and most of them have posted at least once. There is so much reading here that I’m pretty sure you have not got to much of it in the few minutes you have been a member.
This question is asked probably once a day, so maybe do a search and see what answers others have received. I know this is your first question, but some people who regularly answer questions tend to ignore these.
There are tips and hints on some of your question directly and how to use the forums and how to effectively search, etc, here in a Post a bunch of us made up for new faces to help them along.