If using the NodeMCU project then you can setup the light in HA either with the normal Limitless Led component or mqtt json light component (which is more versatile).
I prefer the project I mentioned because the lights are fully in sync with HA. It has also a sniffer so the packages sent by physical remotes (either handheld or wall mounted) are captured and HA is updated.
Real feedback means a 24/7 full-duplex connection between controller and light bulb which I think that neither Philips Hue has. Or have a light sensor located near the light bulb and have it reporting if the state of the bulb has changed (is doable with LDR and a NodeMCU running OpenMQTT, see below)
Otherwise, sending a package from the NodeMCU running MiLight Hub has a 98%+ chance of changing the light which I think is reasonable enough. Also, for a larger house two of these units might be needed to ensure coverage. Anyway, a packet repeat can be done in HA in order to ensure the bulb has received the command.