I had replied in the PoE thread before coming over here and reading this one.
So I just now see your most recent reply (and noticed the date) and also that you sound like you largely made up your mind already.
Well, all I can say is keep your mind (and house conduits 
) open as this journey never really ends. I think ShadowFist gave you some really good advice in that regard further up thread.
Best of luck and let us know how it turns out! 
When you realize that your wife nor any of your friends want to hear about it any longer, we will still be here waiting for you.
Cheers!