3ch control or 2ch with more than only toggle needed

I am looking for the right hardware.
I’ve got a standard 55mm double wall switch and want to control three things.
Two lamps, the ones that are connected to the switch at the moment, plus another zigbee lamp group.
So I need either a wall module with 3 channels or a 2 channel module that could be programmed for additional outputs. Like short press for the one lamp and long press for the zigbee group.
Also a complete 3 (or more) scene wall switch could work I think.
Here are my requirements:
-230v (so no battery driven devices)
-possibility to control 3 things (at least 2 230v outputs)
-for push button use, not for switches

For complete wall switches:
-standard eu 55mm size

Hope you can help me.