I bought a couple of these 5" and 3.5" displays, after much messing around I finally have them working. You can the code and see example screen shots here
https://github.com/jimmyeao/ESP32-S3_Touch
Hopefully this helps someone 
I bought a couple of these 5" and 3.5" displays, after much messing around I finally have them working. You can the code and see example screen shots here
https://github.com/jimmyeao/ESP32-S3_Touch
Hopefully this helps someone