Do you have nightly VM backups enabled per chance? I’m not sure how proxmox handles it exactly but hypervisors typically do a VM stun (temporarily unscheduled VM), take a snapshot, resume the VM, copy the snapshot to a backup, and remove the snapshot.
My guess would be something breaking in that process. Could be that you’re out of space for the snapshot (so the VM remains stunned). Could be that the resume never triggers because of some other reason.
Perhaps not as detailed of a response as you’re after (I don’t know proxmox logging, unfortunately). Hopefully it gives somewhere to get started with something to rule in/out though.
I checked Proxmox and excluded automatic snapshots/backups (they were disabled).
I checked the logs and found nothing notable.
The VM now has 12 GB fixed RAM (ballooning disabled).
That is all I have verified so far. If you can point to specific log files/entries or a targeted command you want me to run (e.g. under /var/log/pve/tasks/ or a qm agent check), I will run it and post the sanitized results.
You are using VLAN. Make a copy of the VM and try without VLAN and without setting MTU. You do not need 6 cores, 4 are enough. You also try to set the processor to host or kvm74 (if memory serves me well your current AES setting can cause issues to HA).
See below an example of a working VM.