Hardware for full house domotic

Hi
I am building a house in France and would like to install full domotic but have no clue about any system/hardware (the software will follow) that would provide a good service with potential for evolution without costing a leg.
I have been proposed with some solutions that are proprietary and this does not get my favor. I am looking for solutions/hardwares to (at distance)

  • Detect if windows are open or close
  • Close/open rolling shutter
  • Detect/switch on/off lighting
  • Open close garage/door
  • camera
  • Heating/heat pump/stove
  • Main door with PIN that can be modified via apps
  • smoke detector
  • activate sound/tv/other personal devices

As well looking for hardware that can be wired rather than working with WIFI when possible
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Has anyone conducted such a project and has any suggestions/recommendations re. the hardware to implement.
Thanks a lot!