After several years I have decided to just start completely fresh and installed an ubuntu 18.04 LTS base and followed the alternative install instructions here.
I have stumbled before configuring anything when trying to add a --device to the docker.
I have added portainer and thought about trying to convert it all to a docker-compose setup or a portainer stack but will editing the homeassistant container break the supervised install?
Swapping ports and a few restarts later it has shown up but I am not exactly confident yet. I may switch to a docker compose on debian or even just use the NUC image.