Icons that are state based; iOS widget buttons

Would love to be able to know that a light is on or off via just looking at the widget icons. At the moment I use ewelink’s widgets to confirm something is off/closed.
My post about this a while ago didn’t lead me anywhere (Making the buttons of the iOS action widgets change color based on state?)

Also would LOVE it if all my scenes didn’t become widget buttons for my partner and I every time I restart HA.

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