Integration for recurring chores?

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I have a number of ‘chores’ that happen on a recurring basis. Examples are changing my HVAC filter every 90 days, or changing out my eye contact lenses every 30 days.

I want an ordered list of the next due ‘chores’ on my dashboard, ordered by how soon until they are due.

I want an easy way to know if any chore is due today, so I can change the color on a light or send a notification of the active chores.

Bonus points for an easy way to create a script for each one to easily hook into Alexa to ‘reset’ the chore timer.

I’ve seen Garbage Collection and the Grocy solutions, but I don’t think they do quite what I want. In particular, these don’t need to be done everyday, or on a certain day of the week or anything like that. Once they are ‘due’, they remain due until they are completed. for garbage days, if you miss it you just wait for next week. For these chores, once you mark them done they reset by 90 days or 30 days or whatever they are configured for.

Anything like this out there?

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I’m using Grocy for this sort of thing. You can set it up for every 90 days, although I do mine as weeks because then I can also tell it to only become due on the weekend. If you go past the due date it flags as overdue, and once you mark a chore done, it resets for x days/weeks into the future. Is that not what you’re after?