You found out already that matter devices often can’t deliver this basics. 
Funny (and sad?) that the CSA links to some article about the “best”(matter) smart plugs 
And the “overall” winner does have usual matter limitations.… 
I prefer 100% local control and ownership hence no matter devices at all but only WiFi/ethernet based ESPHome goodness at home 
Some vendors selling pre-flashed ESPhome devices such as athom