Nano switch as a switch sensor only

I just installed nano dimmers and switches throughout my house.

I found that some of the lights have been wired in unusual ways so that you need to turn off for example 2 switches which are quite some distance apart to turn the lights off. And then you can only turn them on if you turn on one at a time but you can’t turn them off unless they are both off.

I am wondering can I in fact disconnect the light from the nano demo or nano switch but still somehow use it so that my hub can sense the flick of the Switch and then using the real switch or nano turn it on.

So what I’m really asking is can I use a nano demo or nano switch to sense the pushbutton switch but not have an actually do anything i.e. turn on a light.