NFC tag recommendation

Hi,

I ordered two different sets of NFC tags at Amazon (one which can handle metal surfaces and a set of default stickers) but they work both unreliable as hell with my iPhone 12.
Does anybody have a good recommendation for reliable NFC tags with strong iPhone interconnectivity?
Is there btw any tweak to push the nfc performance of an iPhone at all?

Thanks in advance?

The only way to improve them is to get ones with a larger design, the larger the coil the better the induction for it to register.

Size is not really important for my applications, I just stick them somewhere to trigger e.g. a door lock opening event.
But I could hardly find any larger tags. They seem all to have a diameter of 25mm.