OTA flashing the esp01_1m requires reset?

I have a few devices that contain these esp01_1m modules. With the more recent versions of ESPHome (say roughly the last year or so) in order to flash them OTA with the new updated firmware I have to push the (yaml configured) reset button, or cycle the power and try to upload the firmware immediately when it starts to communicate again. Without doing this, I am unable to flash the software OTA. ESP32’s do not seem to have this issue. I do not remember this being an issue with the older versions of ESPHome. Where should I look for logs when this occurs to see if they tell me anything? Is anyone else experiencing this?