Problem with NIC hang on NUC in PVE :-)

NIC/NUC problems.
I need some advice for using the pve on my NUC.
I see the message described here:
I was wondering if any of you guys have solved it successfully.
I’ve tried using the ethtool thing, and I’m awaiting the result, but I can see that transfer rates are being punished by this. I’m unsure if what I see is ‘the old bug’ or ‘the new kernel bug’.
Should I go to vmware instead? I really do like pve and qvm, but I can’t base the HA on a platform that will crash all the time.