@tobas
You need to add your controller (node 1) to the the 2nd association group on the lock. In the Z-Wave settings for that node, it’s under “Node group associations.” Add your Z-Stick/controller to group 2 as the “node to control” and remove it from the 1st group. You should then get real-time status updates.
Note: I believe this is fairly specific to the FE599 and BE369 locks from Schlage, others shouldn’t require this.