Solución a problema luces Led g10 rgbw techo

Hello everyone, I have a problem that I have been dragging because I have not just found the key, and I have decided to be able to solve it with someone who advises and guides me. I put you in a situation, I have HA… Running in debian in a NUC, all the devices (Alarm, Blinds, water sensors, co2… movement) zigbee. I have remote access. And WOL in case the power goes out, reboot the system remotely.

Except 5 WiFi rgbw Led lights, running locally.

A) 2 of the Led lights, in a single circuit switched with 2 “dumb” switches

B) 3 of the Led lights, in a single circuit switched with 2 “dumb” switches.

And this is precisely what I want to give a solution to.

1°) Being able to use the “dumb” physical switches, you know… Family… guests… children… press the switch and the light cuts current and WiFi goes away.

2°) If the light goes out due to a cut… when it receives power again, they remain in off mode.
What would be the configuration so that both premises are given and, as far as possible, do it by relay so as not to change the “dumb” switches?

zigbee relay (switched) + zigbee lights

Any specific tutorial somewhere? I can’t find anything…

And above all, which ones would be appropriate? Sonoff, Shelly… And g10 zigbee lights?

Thank you very much to all.