What am I missing out on when I add aqara devices to my zigbee Network whithout using the aqara hub?

You can do all that (and more) with Home Assistant’s ZHA integration as well but it might be trickier to find and use the right configuration (as you sometimes need to figure out which attributes/entiries, etc…

Suggest reading this related community guide which covers this topic of not using proprietary hubs/bridges:

Also recommend that also read all these other Zigbee guides too to get better understanding and tips: