I do not understand these - It looks like you have tried everything under the sun… is that the case? Some of those elements you mentioned are not compatible with others. So they (understandably) would not work if/when you mix and match.
At this point, I would recommend we focus on the HAOS install method, and put the other 3 methods aside:
Home Assistant Operating System
Home Assistant Container
Home Assistant Supervised
Home Assistant Core
Now, @trentjw , could you help elaborate your metal box setup? Let’s focus on the hardware first. What do you have?