Would be great to have a thread network map to help diagnose issues.
The OpenThread Border Router addon can show a network map.
You need to enable a port in the configuration. The default is 8080, then you can access the webinterface on http://<ha ip address>:8080/ and there is a Topology page.
Check the documentation of the addon for more info.
No, I deleted OTBR as it constantly caused issues. Tried it again recently with the same result so result so deleted it again. It is probably the Sky Connect. I have three google, one apple and one nanoleaf TBR’S on the same PAN on hannel 23. Found the network map in OTBR to also be inconsistent.