ZHA extremely slow and unreliable with ConBeeII stick

Note that most Zigbee coordinators and especially ConBee/Raspbee are known for being very susceptible to signal interference, so other than updating the ConBee firmware, be sure to take actions to avoid radio frequency interference and electromagnetic interference by using suggested long USB extension cable to a USB 2.0 port (or use it via a USB 2.0 hub) and add electromagnetic shielding to computer, peripherals, and appliances, as well consider getting better shielded cables/wires. Read:

https://github.com/home-assistant/home-assistant.io/pull/18864

and

https://www.home-assistant.io/integrations/zha#best-practices-to-avoid-pairingconnection-difficulties

Just some examples of others with ConBee that expensive similar symptom due to signal interference: