If you are able to bypass the eero (even temporarily) - you will be able to do the update.
If you:
Setup your phone to share its network via Wifi
in HA, go to Supervisor → System → Host (top right) and change the WiFi details to join this
Reboot Host
Then leave for around 10-15 mins, does this fix the issue (noting that your HA will pickup a new temporary IP from the phone)
After this, then (using the new temporary address from the phone or Nabucasa etc) re-set the networking and reboot again
If this works then you are experiencing the same issues that other eero users are.
(seems that something is very broken in the eero networking stack from the last update) - I have told them about it but not sure it is being diagnosed further.
What we really need is someone to packet cap from the HA box the DHCP leasing negotiations and DNS queries between a) behind the eero’s and b) not behind the eero’s
Sadly this is consistent with others. I suggest raising a ticket with eero support
(hopefully this will help it get some attention and resolve in the next eero update)
From the eero app:
Settings → Troubleshooting → E-mail Support
Reference issue entitled “Issue after last update” that was raised on 27/4 and was being actioned by “Jeffrey” at eero Customer support.
I have also pointed them in the direction of the forum and my original posts on the matter.
If I had more time I would do some packet caps of the DHCP leasing process and DNS queries from the HA end (or via an intermediate laptop running Wireshark) to compare the differences.
Changing my Eero DNS to 8.8.8.8 (rather than HA host) seems to have helped so far. Nslookup in the Supervisor was returning SERVFAIL for a bunch of different urls, GitHub.com included.