Aqara devices unstable on Dongle-E

Some people have reported better luck with the ZBDongle-P model when got devices manufactured by Aqara/Xiaomi and Tuya → https://community.home-assistant.io/t/iteads-sonoff-zigbee-3-0-usb-dongle-plus-model-zbdongle-p-based-on-texas-instruments-cc2652p-20dbm-radio-soc-mcu/340705

Regardless suggest that you also consider buying a few (recommend three or more) known good Zigbee Router devices (like example IKEA Tradfri Signal Repeater or flash Zigbee Coordinator dongles to use in USB-changers) + follow → Guide for Zigbee interference avoidance and network range/coverage optimization

As mentioned there, changing to a other Zigbee channel sometimes help with some devices.

Also read → https://www.home-assistant.io/integrations/zha#best-practices-to-avoid-pairingconnection-difficulties